7/4/2022 0 Comments AITA for Confronting My Boyfriend After I found Out He and My Best Friend Slept Together?My boyfriend (25) and I (20M) have been dating for about a week. We're really into each other. He's my first boyfriend, so this whole experience is new to me. I know he has kind of a promiscuous past, which makes me feel a little self-conscious because the most I've done is kissing and that's been with him. Last night, I found out that he and my best friend (23F) slept together a few years ago. The worst part is that my boyfriend didn't even tell me himself. I had to find this out from my best friend after the three of us spent the night hanging out. She gave me a ride home and confessed to me after feeling horrible about not telling me about it sooner. When I texted my boyfriend to ask him why he didn't tell me about it, he got really defensive and basically told me it was none of my business. I got really upset and hurt, and I told him I needed time. I haven't talked to him since we agreed to take a break, I think. I'm not really sure where we stand right now. I'm hurt, and I feel betrayed. I have no idea what to do. Do I try to mend things with him? Do I break up with him? I really, really like him, but it hurts he wasn't the one to tell me. My friend shouldn't have been the one to have to tell me this. But the way my boyfriend reacted makes me think I might be in the wrong. Did I do something wrong by confronting him about it? Is that why he got so upset? Am I the asshole?
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